how to play/learn strategy game?

[assimk18]

i never sucess in any strategy game. usually respone of decisions acumilated, the response show in mid game or end game. some gamer focus on strategy game told me, the fun is find out how the system work, once you found, the game become no so interested. but how? usually these days strategy game is not so hard as i was told, but i still never got an aha moment. how to find it?